Appreciating Her Comments

I always appreciate and value the comments of wives & girlfriends as they are confronted with the very foreign concept of a male chastity device. This one rang a few bells over at Cricketed's blog.

"... It follows that a few months later when he happened upon the concept of male chastity, he was ready to make the decision. My husband chose to wear the cricket. He did it for us and for me—and, certainly, himself. He wanted us to be more intimate and honest and unafraid. He actually wanted to ache for me. He wanted us to be continually excited by each other. He didn’t know if he knew at the time that it would make us share a more equitable exchange. But, that any man should want to put his cock into a locked device and trust me with its key in order to make our relationship more meaningful and sexually exuberant astonished me. It also made me laugh. There is something very sexy and very funny about the cricket."

"The question of artificiality barely brushed my brain. This man was offering himself to me in a way I had never expected and his vision of what it could be was extraordinary. It was expansive. He saw ahead but let us explore it slowly. From this vantage, the question about whether it was a crutch seemed small and did not compare to the generosity of the gift"

Wow, ok, if you get a moment, hop on over and check out the rest of J's comments.

Stumbled onto Good Advice

Anyone reading my blog for any time knows how I feel about communication... and I just read about a few women that couldn't agree more. As in What Other Hotwives Should Know, she has a set of rules that we should all agree with...

Another writer wishes she had followed that set of rules... while keeping her hubby locked and at home.

So much to learn about ourselves... and so little time. I know in more relationships than I imagined, even Sarah's Blog, people keep the fantasy of cuckold play as just that... fantasy, and with enormous results. But still, the thought of her first time is extremely titillating.

Enjoy... and be safe. Ahhh.... the pleasures of a woman.

So Much to Share, So Little Time...

It seems so much flows through my brain, especially in the early morning hours... I should just keep note paper next to my pillow.

In the meantime, until I find that time, I'll just have to note that I've read Thumper's blog and his agreement and disagreement with Cricketed's thoughts on the subject of orgasm control and male chastity... It is good that we're all on the same page... and not. Anyone reading my blog for awhile know I don't quite fit either mold... but close.

Anyway... I'm waiting for Sarah's almost published new book on our favorite subject. Not the Mini Guide, but the new more comprehensive one. And while you're at her site, read, or subscribe to her emails. Wow... teasing him with... oh I'll let you find out.

Chao...

Photos Say So Much!

I love photos that express those 'thousand words', like this one, with of course his obvious chastity, and her loving message with one hand, and the grip she has with the other. Then of course, the anklet with the key dangling from her ankle. How can we not just smile? Lucky couple...!

When will the players in the chastity world share more photos like this one?

Or is everyone just having too much fun in 'the game'? 'Love on' everyone, and grab that camera once in a while and share.


Imagine the next photo with him caged and a caption such as 'Shhhh... I'm thinking of another dozen orgasms before bringing him to one... or maybe next week?'

Your caption?

Rule of Three

When she asks for the ‘Rule of Three’, I can of course agree, or not. But, of course, curiousity usually always leads to a concensual ‘Yes’… So, will it be three minutes, hours, days… or months? Trying to outguess her always gets me in trouble.

And, depending upon my mood at the moment, may illicit entirely different reponses from me… from really wanting three minutes, to hoping for three months. As I continue to learn about myself, the short term desire for the ‘3 minutes’ lockup is just that. Three minutes, and a typical lovemaking moment of heaven with her. And maybe a week before life and busy schedules allow another break and time for love.

But, on the other hand… three months of spending time in her tease & denial lockup somehow always ends up in much more frequent lovemaking, although my chance of reaching the big ‘O’ is totally up to her whim under the ‘Rule of Three’. To make it even more interesting, since it is her decision, what I may think is 3 hours might end up being a week.

And I don’t care… and I do care. As Sarah Jameson has pointed out, we males do want our orgasm, but crave the denial. Yes, well, everything in our world just isn’t black and white is it. So the denial and frustration, being what it is, is truly what we want, especially with a heavy dose of teasing… Don’t try to figure us out, just go with it. What does make it all worth while is the pleasure she derives from both the orgasms that I drive her to, and the pleasure she enjoys having me caged. I’m getting an erection just thinking about it… If you want a better understanding of male chastity, please read Sarah’s ‘Guide to Male Chastity’. You won’t be sorry; it will be in your mind until you experience it yourself.

And how the ‘Rule of Three’ is communicated is not important… email, text, or just a whisper in my ear as we pass.

And today, nearly 1pm, it is a simple text message. From my home office, I wander up to the bedroom, and there on my pillow is the velvet bag. Quickly, trying not to think too much of the consequences yet, I drop my shorts and prepare to lock myself up. As I finish, I thread the lock through the hole, and text back ‘Do you want to hear the click?’. Minutes seem to pass, when today, instead of the usual ‘Absolutely’, her response is ‘Click it NOW’. With a deep breath, I push the lock together with the usual positive sound that it is now secure. I text back ‘Let the Fun begin..’ and receive a quick return text ‘Love You!’.

Ahhh… here we go. Surrender… not submission.

And another text... 'Guess what I have done with the key?'

Real Men Wear One...

And the Key is Hers...

Obviously not focusing on my work...

Two screens... one on work, and the other open to Sarah's blog. And I wonder why I don't have my full attention on my contract? Hmm...

And the thought of being fully into the new month of chastity play, and playful pillow talk... And the cage getting very tight... again! Sarah's expressions of how this game proceeds should be on the top seller list this year.

How long will it take for more main stream knowledge of this play? And her description of 'feminine power'? Powerful indeed...

And I suppose she is right... I'm screaming for release, but really hoping she just smiles and firmly replies 'NO'. And when she decides to enjoy the feel of my penetration, the key snaps open the lock, and I'm free and swelling... And as she guides me to her moist and waiting self, she whispers 'This is mine and only mine... do Not cum'. And I don't... until she decides it is so.

And 'NO' again... but ultimately know that someday she will whisper 'Now!' But in the mean time, she has had the pleasure she never dreamed until our chastity play began.



Oh I hope everyone is enjoying their day...