Real Men Wear One...

And the Key is Hers...

Obviously not focusing on my work...

Two screens... one on work, and the other open to Sarah's blog. And I wonder why I don't have my full attention on my contract? Hmm...

And the thought of being fully into the new month of chastity play, and playful pillow talk... And the cage getting very tight... again! Sarah's expressions of how this game proceeds should be on the top seller list this year.

How long will it take for more main stream knowledge of this play? And her description of 'feminine power'? Powerful indeed...

And I suppose she is right... I'm screaming for release, but really hoping she just smiles and firmly replies 'NO'. And when she decides to enjoy the feel of my penetration, the key snaps open the lock, and I'm free and swelling... And as she guides me to her moist and waiting self, she whispers 'This is mine and only mine... do Not cum'. And I don't... until she decides it is so.

And 'NO' again... but ultimately know that someday she will whisper 'Now!' But in the mean time, she has had the pleasure she never dreamed until our chastity play began.



Oh I hope everyone is enjoying their day...

Expectations...

Along similar lines of thinking from the previous post... Sarah's shared comments just rush through our heads.

Your frustration and building anticipation of a future release from your cage, and her confidence building, thanks to your constant appreciation and desire for her... and the elevating teasing that comes with her growing self worth and esteem. And the pillow talk that has followed from those 'dreams of my good friend Tom...' Yes, Tom, of all people... actually acknowledging he finds your wife very attractive... And the two of us playing with that scenario numerous times in our lovemaking... except now, caged, my hardness pressing to fill the cage... and your incredibily detailed description of just a few hours ago...

Wait... did you?

Sarah Really Hits It Again!

Sarah's recent posting on the benefits of male chastity from the womans viewpoint is right on the mark again... So many excellent points that you just have to read the post. Getting these across to both partners in the relationship really head for the win-win (although I wonder about the 'win' for me).

As I've mentioned in previous posts of my own, I wondered how or if the concept of 'sharing' or a modern version of cuckolding, would ever play in my own head, along with chastity play. Obviously I'm not the first to consider it, and being of mind that any jealousy that spiked in my mind would be secondary to her pleasure, and her feeling of freedom to make that choice to play and experience others. Sarah and John have shared that same discussion (and on passionate levels too according to Sarah), and even though she keeps that choice as part of the power she emboldens within chastity play, it is there to spice the play to a higher level.

So her excellent writing continues...

" ... the thought of being able to have no-strings sex with someone new and scratch that itch, yet still have the secur­ity, intim­acy and warmth of a strong rela­tion­ship behind you. For me one of the major male chastity bene­fits I can have that cake and eat it, too."

I wonder if this isn't the thinking of more women, and perhaps why they don't broach the thought with their husband. If he has his head on straight and realizes he is her partner, and not her owner, and knows she is coming back with pleasures to share... then it can be another step higher in their combined passion & play.

"Know­ing a man as desir­able, mas­cu­line and power­ful as John wants me so much boosts my ego no-end. Know­ing he loves the thought of see­ing me fuck another man catches my breath in my throat, even though it’ll never hap­pen. Yes, he looks at other women and porn, but that’s all to my bene­fit in the long run: male chastity bene­fits us by keep­ing that desire for me hot and bub­bling all the time."

She and John have struck the balance that seems to keep them at the level that most of us only experienced early in a hot relationship. For that, I am jealous... (Ok, I'm working on it...)

You just have to read the entire post... and blog, for that matter. As she mentions... it is all consensual... even as it drives us guys crazy with desire & frustration... 'we're both loving it!'

Enjoying Sarah's Blog

So little time, so much to say... but I hope everyone is catching Sarah's Blog
and all her insight and real life experience that I think many readers actually seek.

And if you haven't subscribed to her Guide, I would recommend it. It is excellent reading for both husband & wife, especially if you follow her suggestions, such as the list. I suspect if we all actually did as mentioned, we really would have much to celebrate... and pleasure shared.

Spring Time in the Rockies

Not my usual post, but it is finally nice and nearly all the snow gone in town. And bicyclists are out by the groves...

Love this shot... talk about a tease! Hope everyone is out and taking in some fair weather.

Wait... We're Missing the Point

Those of us reading Tom and Sarah's blogs are getting quite a lesson in logic and debate... but I would like everyone to revisit the question. Oh, what was that? That might be in who you ask; personally, I would like to go back to something on track with 'vanilla male chastity', or how to provide resources for wives and girlfriends to explore a journey into male chastity without being frightened away screaming....

Granted, my blog isn't exactly vanilla territory, but much of my previous experiences actually contributed to my blog, before I realized such activities and fantasies even existed. And I haven't had time to write more of what I haven't touched on yet. No, nothing drastic... just things like my old neighbors that invited me to her bed while hubby was out on business. As it turned out, hubby was 'too big' and I, being more 'average' was 'just perfect'. That went on until they decided to start a family, and I bowed out.

There's more, like when I would 'tie up' the jewels and cock, and leave the end of a rope 'available' to my lover. She would spot the rope peeking from my beltline, tug on it, knowing what was attached, and say 'ahhhh ... this must be mine' and lead me to an appropriate spot for further play.

So when I discovered such things as male chastity, I was delighted, aroused, curious... and shocked at where some guys went with their version of the chastity fantasy. Way beyond anything I ever imagined, or dream in my worst nightmare. As it went, I found some 'reasonable' and believable blogs (Thanks Tom!) and began to call my fantasy Male Chastity Play to just engage in activity that didn't involve humility, demeaning or outrageous BDSM, etc. Just activity between playful consenting lovers that I thought brought balance and and edge to our bedroom (and beyond) play.

So discovering intelligent women like Sarah that didn't run, and now embrace this play, and hence coin the 'vanilla male chastity' concept is ... thrilling!