From High on the Mountain... Happy Thanksgiving

Hope everyone has a warm and friendly holiday... with double helpings of love...
Cherish and enjoy all that surrounds us.

My Naivete?

Browsing a quick moment this morning brought me to two words that I've not known before, although I'm intimately familiar with both. Compersion and Candaulism. I've got to run and must return later to the discussion, but didn't want to forget them, since many who read these pages can relate to both, either in practice or fantasy...

Later...

Diversity & Communication

After skimming through a few blogs this morning, I see a common thread again that I've written about numerous times... and it still appears as a major barrier to many of us. Communication. I probably don't need to reiterate the importance of it again (you will find it many times through the history of my blog), so I'll fore go the subject, other than to say I wish there were as easier way for each of us to stop dancing around the thoughts in our heads and just get it right.

Another theme that peeks from under the sheets... diversity. Thankfully, each of us is a bit different and our response to the variety of stimuli is as varied as the day is long. While I really enjoy reading the blogs, and try not to judge what stirs emotions in one direction or another, I find it incredibly interesting that the general themes surface as they do. I can see as I write this that I could easily spend the rest of the day writing on the subject, but that won't happen with the dead lines I have. Perhaps another time...

I most appreciate when couples share their thoughts on the blogs, and see responses from partners that indicate the emotions or thoughts from their partners seem to flow through where they might not have made it through the verbal exchange, or even the barrage of events that pass through our daily lives. Kudos to those of you that find a way to extend that communication and understanding that we all seek. What I do wonder is if our simply wearing of the steel cage and surrendering the key to our ladies is a special extension of making that higher level of communication possible between us. Intimacy with extra frosting on the cake...

Ok, and yes, then there is all the deep emotions associated with 'OMG - He is giving me the power of control over his orgasms... and allowing me unlimited pleasure to all I can have'.

I'm rambling and must get back to the tasks at hand... (no, not that one, real work). Have a great day in chastity.

Gaining Popularity?

Seems this latest find is gaining as the cage of choice... just not TSA safe. But that may become mute with the new body scanners being employed?

So comfort and increasing choice of our ladies?

Love the Real Blogs

I'm not gone... just buried. But I still try to get out and read a number of the blogs and love reading life moving along, and while day to day stuff will always be there, the play continues, and in some cases, grows (no pun intended).

Keep talking and thanks for sharing!

Sarah Nails It AGAIN!

I don't know what I was reading lately, or if something in her new Guide triggered something, but as I commented in her blog, the thoughts of why male chastity play appeals to me was, again, rumbling through me head. Then she writes on the very subject today in her blog. Incredible...

Just wander over and read today's blog and you'll know what I think is missed by too many women. It is so obvious men and women are just plain wired differently, and as she has mentioned repeatedly, we males do WANT our orgasm, but do crave the denial. It is paradox to be sure, and just too few people know this even exists. I WANT my orgasm, but more than that, LOVE the experience to see her heaven sent in pure unbridled pleasure.

Thanks Sarah for your insights here... I clearly don't have the time to devote as you have taken in the last six months to pour your energy to trying to share this loving concept with us. And John, without your openness to communicate these deep rooted desires and thoughts, Sarah may not appreciate the door you opened.

Just a Quick Tease

Inspired again during the night, but again without much of a day to share it...

I did read through Sarah's Guide and have a bit to share there too, but it will have to wait...

Hope it is a great Wednesday! By now, everyone is probably curious about the Cosmo edition on the magazine shelves with the 'Own His Orgasm' teaser on the front cover... I know I am.