Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Two is company...

OK... I'm struggling here. I never know where I stand in this 'relationship'. Actually, I'm just a room mate. Period. Add 'fool'. This has to change...

I've been reading a variety of blogs, and a million thoughts go through my head, but... in the end, I think the one thing I really want the most is simply a loving relationship. After that, obviously, is the communication. That is the core of almost all the relationships I have been reading; communicate and be honest... establish and build the trust, and don't get lazy.

Keep building that trust and sharing what passes through your head with her. It is sometimes work, but hey... many of the blogs would not be there, or worth reading with only a fantasy here and there. When both of you are making comments and blogging, the rest of us really sit up and notice. Thank you for sharing... It gives me hope that someday I can get there.

I'm rambling...

2 comments:

Elle said...

Awwww... I hope you find what you're looking for.

Lady Julia said...

That is the core of almost all the relationships I have been reading; communicate and be honest... establish and build the trust, and don't get lazy.

We often hear about communication being important but I think many forget that having a good relationship takes work, too. Oh there are a few out there who profess if you're a "real" Domme or "real" submissive, then it comes as naturally as breathing, but .. well let's just say I'm pretty skeptical about that. If we want something to be good or at least better, most of the time we have to work for it. I know that doesn't always mean we will succeed, but I think it increases our odds. Even if we don't get what we want, something good usually comes from that.

Hang in there and keep rambling :) If talking helps, then you have people here willing to listen.

Hugs.