Balance over submission

After re-reading a few blogs, and some of the reference material listed on the edge of my blog, I see a long list of 'why'... Why would I volunteer to wear a chastity device? Going through the lists, some of those thoughts are of interest, but reflecting on a comment that really hits the mark is 'this brings balance to our relationship that is missing from the typical union'. And of course, just the simple playful aspect is welcome.

I realize day-to-day life is just that, with all the usual bits & pieces, chores & bills, cooking & exercise... but tossing in that bit of spice now and then, with her realization that she has choices that are at a higher level than most women will never have, hopefully will bring a smile and naughty thought a bit more often...

The Cricket

As much as I want to write, time just has not been on my side; I'm behind even when I climb from bed each morning. But I usually try to sneak a moment and see what is happening out in blog land, and today it is about 'the cricket' (click on the title above). Some very interesting discussions by the author, and Tom has entered into the discussions occasionally too... Their dialogue stirs deeply.

While I only took time to quickly scan through (I'm coming back when I get a moment) I caught a line that parallels thoughts of my own...

"One of the things I love so much about J is how sexually voracious she is. She loves cock. I want her to have as much wild untamed sex as she needs. If the word I looking for is cuckold, then so be it. I love J with all my heart, and will gladly be her cuckold. I want her to have as many lovers as she’d like, and to be as happy as she can be." I'd like her to be as happy as she can be...

Where was I going in the picture with "Hubby will be so pleased..."? Perhaps the pillow talk may have played with the concept over and over and never realized. But she knows she has the freedom to take that moment of lust and finally, and fully enjoy it, with all my support. She also knows, that once she does, my only wish is that she later share that joyful moment with me, so that we have re-live that pleasure again...