Oh Where to Hide the Key

Just our little secret... we won't tell him that the key to his cage is tucked safely in your tummy...



And that you are staying home for our trip away next week...


Shhhh... It's just our little secret, ok?

So many little bits of fun that come with chastity play, that she will have fun with when they get past the initial "You Want to do What?"

Open up and live & love...

Another Year Already?

If you've read this blog all along, you know I think everyday should be Valentine's Day...

Hope it is another sweet day for you too. I also hope you have a few sweet messages with your sweets...

And may you ladies wear your keys proudly.

Thank You for the Click

Seems all of the people that find these chastity play pages have a common item that we all love.  The sound of that 'click' as the lock closes, and we males have granted our lover the power of surrender over us.

After the click, we all have a variety of paths that make our day.  Different is fine, as long as our lover is on the same path, which is where some of us need a 'course correction'.  Probably the hardest part of that 'taking the same path' is just simply the communication as the journey begins.  Part of it is simply the realization for her that it is okay to lock him up, to tease him, to deny him, to take the play, the teasing from him, the orgasm he wants her to totally enjoy with all his blessings, while he does not.  Not this time.  Maybe not next time, or the time after that.  Yes his desire builds, yes he enjoys the tease, even if it drives him up the wall.  Don't feel guilty... just say Thank You lover.  And continue to tease, and when the desire strikes you, take him.

After all... he granted you that freedom, that power, that pleasure in knowing your pleasure is his pleasure. Take it.  Embrace it, and don't look back to the days before the two of you discovered chastity play. And enjoy that moment when you know he has again been brought to the very edge, ... only this time he explodes in a moment you choose to feel his release...

For many that write here, joy comes in locking him right back up again.  For some of us, a break until the mood strikes her again, as I wrote in the 'Rule of Three' is really keeping the fire going.  It seems lately, I find more women want the lockup to continue.  Okay... I can live with that. Enjoy.

The Future?

What a wedding gift... I only hope he can appreciate it now like they will in the future.

Love this photo...

Control & Tease

The thought of control without teasing just turns me numb... I know her having control is just enough to blow my socks off, but adding a bit of daily teasing to orgasm control just doubles the fun with this game.


While browsing during the holidays, I stumbled on a video where the wife had managed to tie up her husband, and of course with his cooperation, edged him over and over with her tongue.  They were so adapt at this game that with his hints of coming too close, she would let go just in time... kissing the head of his penis but not stimulating him to orgasm.  Their ability to do this went on for easy 20 minutes before she decided to not let him orgasm and grabbed a bag of frozen vegies to cool him down and return him to his cage.  She did of course console him while locking him up, saying maybe next time, without saying when that might be.  I was waiting for her to spoil an orgasm, but not this time.  Absolutely mind blowing... and 'click'.  Locked and Loved.

While that sounds absolutely torturous, it was obvious they loved this game, and while he obviously desperately wanted to orgasm, she knew he still craved the denial.  She just passionately kissed the head of his cock and continued.  We are such a mystery to our partners and ourselves even.  In my mind, he would turn around and pleasure her to multiple orgasms to her hearts content.

Ahhh...  hope you can find time in today's schedule for some play of your own.  Practice Practice Practice.

Update: this isn't the one I remember, but close...  enjoy.  Or from the same couple.. whew!

Peace

Patience Grasshopper

After just reading comments over at A Wonderful Journey, I tossed in a comment at the end and then sat back to reflect for a moment that I could use a bit of encouragement as well, but I just don't take the time to really blog about where my life is at the moment. Duh...

I'm just too quick to live in the moment of the rest of you, and don't offer where I am in comparison (not that any of our lives would correspond exactly anyway...). And at the moment, it is mute anyway. However, I did just get an interesting email from someone that flirts with me occasionally that ended with a comment that I'm not sure I understand: 'I greet that place where you and I are one'. ???

I'm not sure what she means by that and not yet in a position to push that communication aspect that I keep mentioning throughout my blog. Sigh...

In the meantime, I'll keep re-reading Sarah's BCWYWF and think through what I would say when the moment arrives. Thanks again to all of you in blogland that share your stories and experiences, for what you write lifts many more to push towards the intimacy we seek.

Stay warm and safe travels to you.