Showing posts with label sexuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexuality. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Regarding Intimacy - Which Would He Choose?


If you set your husband/boyfriend down and viewed a long list of exotic photos, which do you think he would select? And why? What is it that drew him to that photo? Lust? Content? Composition? Or just clearly the sex...?

And your views on the same photo? Or some he didn't select? Any fantasies shared with masturbation? Threesomes? Kinks? No... I don't include male chastity play as kink; we are just ahead of the game. Maybe I've been here too long, but male chastity play is just deep intimacy within a couple that love each other. OK, maybe on the edge-of-vanilla (where have I heard that before?) Anyway, here is an interesting spot if case you need a starting place.

Just another avenue to explore the levels of comfort in talking through the intimacy that the two of you share. Does he have a few photos tucked away in a folder somewhere he hasn't shared with you? Just wondering...

WAIT... I forgot to add if you really are curious about his reactions, try it with him naked. A twist on reading his 'body language' and how it corresponds to what he says...

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Dear Friends ...

Wishing everyone all the best in these ... most interesting times.
Merry Christmas!

As I was writing a few holiday cards last night, I had the IFC channel on the TV, and quickly realized that the movie was quite interesting. Body of Evidence was uncut and loaded with more body than evidence... whew. Following it was Kinsey, also not a new movie, it is just that I don't see much TV, and this was also quite interesting... and contained, obviously a serious boatload of different aspects of human sexuality that I've read about in the past several months. I'm sure I am probably the last one to see these two; the first for more just raw sex and 'who dun it' intrigue, and the second for material I did not know was covered in the Kinsey research. Honestly... I did get all my cards finished... at about 1am.